What Happens During A Tantric Massage?
What are the benefits of Yoni Massage and Tantric Massage?
This type of Bodywork has profound benefits, guiding you to a richer, more vivid life.
By releasing stored tension, numbness and disconnect, it creates space for your unique expression of your authentic self, feeling great and confident in your body.
Some feel an inner glow and positivity that is formed from self love. It feels like an ability to move through life with a sense of authenticity, transforming relationships.
You may feel a heightened intuition, knowing what feels right for you, informing decisions that will improve your choices.
This can be recognised as making better health choices, intuitive eating, and a natural seeking out of healthy behaviours and conversations.
Your body awakens, vibrant and attuned, opening to intensified pleasure and healing energy. This can dissolve sexual blockages, allowing for fuller, more expansive experiences, igniting confidence, creativity, and inspiration.
You may also feel a heightened sensitivity to subtle energies—nature, others, and the spaces in between—where true creativity and spontaneous beauty emerge.
The result is a healthier, more radiant you, living in harmony with mind, body, and spirit.
What is Sensual Massage? What Is Tantric De-Armouring? What is Yoni Massage?
I use the terms Tantric Massage and Sensual massage interchangeably.
Sensual Massage invites you to slow down, indulge, and celebrate your body and sensuality in a space of deep reverence and care.
Over two or three luxurious hours, this experience guides you into heightened states of pleasure and bliss, where each touch honors your unique essence and desires.
My focus is to create a safe, supportive environment where you can fully receive and connect with your innate worthiness.
In this space, you are cherished and encouraged to immerse yourself completely in the joy of being, diving into the richness of your sensuality. By doing so you release inhibitions, cultivate empowerment, and awaken self-confidence.
By the end of this journey, you’ll feel revitalized, empowered, and deeply connected to your own joy and self-worth, ready to move forward with an open heart and enriched sense self confidence and power.
What is Tantric De-Armouring Bodywork?
After clarifying your intentions of clearing negative beliefs, patterns, stories and traumas, we distill these into emotive words or phrases to use when finding points of tension on the body.
Using breath, sound and movement, this tension, emotion and energy is released from that location. Physical and energetic space is created, offering a space for soft, sensual touch and a resonance of your positive intention to fill it.
After working intuitively with the tension to pleasure cycle, there is a raise in frequency in the body. Energy, buzzing, tingling or arousal can be felt.
There is a second phase of the bodywork which is oil based sensual massage generating more energy to be moved through the body and used as potent healing force.
This is a safe place to allow yourself to express and be seen in the heaviest and darkest of rage, or sorrow, and every emotion up through to pleasure and ecstasy.
Yoni Massage
Yoni Massage is an optional part of Tantric De-armouring and Sensual Massage offerings.
“Yoni" is a Sanskrit term for the female genitalia, often referred to as the "sacred space" or the "source of life." This is the gateway through which we all enter the world, symbolizing the connection between the eternal and the physical.
Women, as life-givers, bearers of children, hold immense creative power, yet we have tragically lost much of the respect and reverence for the feminine over time. For centuries, patriarchal and misogynistic systems have led to the objectification and suppression of women, with many experiencing various forms of abuse, including boundary violations.
These violations can happen in or outside of relationships, through dis-empowering medical procedures, or traumatic childbirth experiences.
Given that much of this trauma occurs in the Yoni and pelvic area, healing these parts of the body is essential for restoring balance and well-being. It's important to note that the Yoni can carry not just trauma from this lifetime, but also inter-generational trauma passed down through the female lineage, held in the Yoni and womb space.
What Happens in a Yoni Massage?
Through a collaborative approach and lots of communication, we soften areas of tension, pain or numbness, where unresolved emotions, past sexual experiences, or societal shame about sexuality may have created energetic or emotional "armor."
By unlocking this armor, the body becomes open to heart-connected, nourishing pleasure. This not only deepens intimacy but also empowers a woman in all areas of her life.
Sexual energy is a profound source of power, creativity, confidence, and self-worth. Integrating this part of oneself can be transformative on both a personal and spiritual level.
Given the deeply intimate nature of this type of massage, clear communication, consent, and boundaries are discussed openly.
It’s essential that no assumptions are made about the body’s readiness for such a process.
THIS IS A VERY SLOW PROCESS.
I emphasize
Ongoing, active, embodied consent
meaning that before approaching any intimate spaces I always invite a deep breath into the body and to listen to how it responds after giving options.
I may ask - ‘We could massage the face, the abdomen or the chest and breast tissue, what feels comfortable for you?’.
There is enough space for the body’s intuitive knowing to come through and guide the session.
This way, the session progresses in an empowered way where you are informing me of your wishes.
I follow with - ‘If anything changes, please let me know by asking for a pause or say stop.’
Some times an honoured ‘Please pause for a moment’, or a ‘Stop’ is the exact medicine that you came to the session for.
The impact of being held, seen, heard and respected in that response, with no reaction or consequence is just what your body needed in the past.
This is powerful!
I am a trauma-informed practitioner, meaning I have a skill set in dealing with people who have experienced trauma.
I am always intuitively checking in with your body to sense how you are feeling, and I guide you to stay connected to your body, sensations and energy that builds.
You will experience uniquely sensational touch and deep release from the tissues of your body that tend to be completely avoided in traditional therapy.
During a Tantric De-armouring session it is likely. that stored emotions and blocked energy comes up to be released through feeling sensations, emotions, pain or pleasure. Often people say it’s the most unique experience they have ever had.
The experiences and emotions vary from person to person and even from session to session.
Everything from anger and sadness to ecstatic bliss and orgasmic pleasure is welcome to be expressed with absolutely no judgement. Every response and experience is welcome and held with love.
Once the massage has finished, I give you some time for your body to integrate the process. I sit by your side in silence whilst you travel on an inwards journey.
And sometimes, this is where some deep healing occurs!
We then talk about your experience to allow reflection and support to integrate over a cup of tea and some chocolate.
