Frequently Asked Questions

This is completely understandable and very normal. Feel free to get in touch and exchange messages, voice memos, or arrange a call, since speaking about your challenges and where you would like to be is already transformative.

This is your journey, and it starts where you are now and moves at your own pace. Reading through the testimonials can also help, since they show how other clients were feeling at the start and how the work supported them through their own barriers.

The Tantric Massage section of the site describes what happens during a session in more detail, and understanding what to expect tends to make the unknown feel less daunting.

Read about Tantric massage

This is a therapy, with no agenda beyond healing the body and mind.

Clients often describe sessions as highly sensual rather than overtly sexual, though arousal and even orgasm can happen, and that is entirely acceptable and welcome, without ever being expected.

Given the intimate nature of this work, consent, communication, and boundaries stay essential throughout, so you are empowered at every stage.

Clothing is always optional; you can begin with as much on as you like, and there is no expectation to remove anything unless you feel comfortable doing so.

Read more under Is It Sexual?

This work is for adults seeking genuine transformation through somatic practice. No prior experience or knowledge is needed, only a readiness to show up authentically and take responsibility for your own pacing and boundaries.

Read more under Who Is This For?

Yes, completely. What happens in a session stays between us, and your privacy is non-negotiable.

Yes. Every session is held with a trauma aware, capacity led approach. Nothing is rushed or forced, and you are always encouraged to listen to your body, honour your own boundaries, and set your own pace.

Read how I keep you safe

Sessions are built around nervous system regulation, safety, and ease, and through experienced touch and bodywork, the areas that hold tension and block energy, sensitivity, and mind body connection are gently opened.

You are guided by your own pace and boundaries throughout. Some sessions are deeply relaxing and healing from a nervous system perspective; others bring emotional release, allowing old trauma and stored pain to move and soften; and some sessions are sensual, liberating, and exquisitely felt, honouring pleasure as part of the healing itself.

See how the whole journey unfolds

The time you book is the amount of bodywork you receive. Around it, every massage and bodywork session also comes with time at the beginning and the end, which is explained in the next question.

Choose your session length

Every massage and bodywork session comes with free time around it, so what you receive is more than the hours you book.

Before: a free 30 minute connection call if you'd like one, so we can talk through what you are looking for.

On the day: up to an hour for arrival, settling in, a grounding meditation and aftercare.

After: a 30 minute aftercare call, to talk through how the session has landed for you.

All of this is at no extra cost. A 2 hour bodywork session, for example, comes with up to two more hours of care around it.

Qi Nei Tsang is a standalone one hour treatment and does not include these.

See what is included when you book

All emotions are welcome. We are here to feel it together, whether that is sadness, grief, or even rage.

The session is about you being in the energy of receiving. Therefore, I do not allow intimate touching of my body.

Holding my leg up to my knees is acceptable.

Arrive with an open body and nervous system, wearing something comfortable.

Eat something light beforehand so you are neither hungry nor too full. Most importantly, arrive with honest consent, since this work only serves you if you genuinely want to be there.

Please wear whatever you will feel comfortable in.

At least two hours. The stomach is massaged during a session, so an empty stomach is best.

Menstrual blood is honoured here as a sacred fluid, so you are welcome to attend while on your bleed. Please let me know if you have any stomach pains or if your breasts are sensitive.

Yes, there is a shower and you are welcome to use it. For your comfort, I would encourage you to take a shower before you arrive.

A £100 deposit is required to secure your booking, and how it is handled if your plans change depends on the notice you are able to give.

If you cancel 28 days or more before your session, your deposit can be refunded in full, or rolled over to a future session if you would rather hold the value for another time.

If you cancel between 7 and 28 days before your session, your deposit can be rolled over to a future booking rather than refunded, so that nothing is lost and we simply find a new date together.

If you cancel less than 7 days before your session, or you do not attend on the day, the deposit is forfeited and cannot be rolled over, because there is rarely enough time to offer the space to someone else.

Any rolled over deposit needs to be used within 3 months of the original session date, after which it can no longer be carried forward.

If anything in your circumstances shifts, the kindest thing you can do is let me know as early as you can, and we will always work it out together as best we can...

Go to booking

Sessions are priced to reflect the training, development, and depth of transformation involved rather than a simple hourly rate.

If you are facing genuine hardship and would still like to experience what these sessions can offer, please get in touch, since reduced rates or a payment plan may be possible.

I am open to travelling to different locations in the UK and worldwide.

Depending on location and distance, I will have to factor some extra costs into the session price.