Who Am I?

Hello, I’m Ben!
While working as a physiotherapist, I was always deeply drawn to spirituality, shamanism, mysticism, and sacred sexuality. I’ve long believed that we are complex spiritual beings having a human experience.

In 2019, I attended my first tantra festival, which sparked a profound journey into exploring relationships, intimacy and sexuality as a path to deeper healing.

It was around that time that I began to experience life-changing shifts. I started to have Mystical experiences, such as experience of a potent and vivid energetic experience union of heaven and earth at my heart center.

Another powerful event was an energy activation performed by two female shamans that left my entire body convulsing with vibrant energy.

In 2020, I went through a ‘dark night of the soul,’ an extremely challenging time where I felt as if my life was ending.

I felt like I had to surrender myself to a higher cause. During these hours, I recognized my purpose: to support healing the wounds of intimacy between the masculine and feminine. After sharing this realization with a shaman friend, we met a few days later at the site of an ancient temple in England, during a dramatic snow blizzard.

We shared a mystical experience where powerful energy flowed up from the earth, through our hearts and out the tops of our heads. After which, the snow blizzard instantly stopped!

Though these experiences were far-reaching, I remain grounded, with a healthy skepticism toward anything I encounter.

Following the blizzard event, I traveled to Guatemala for week-long a Sacred Sexual Shamanic initiation. Just as the initiation began, the world went into lock-down. After the week long training, a group of 25 of us continued to live and explore these concepts together. It was during this time I discovered that combining the trigger point release technique from physiotherapy within a ceremonial context results in profound emotional releases of somatic trauma.

Inspired, I returned to England and undertook extensive training. I trained in Emotional Detox Bodywork with the Tantric Journey School, became a certified Tantric Practitioner through the Academy of Modern Tantra, and completed Kundalini Bodywork training at the School of Energetic Bodywork.

In addition to multiple Trauma Awareness day courses and seminars I completed Trauma Training for Tantra Professionals in April 2025. It was an intense training delivered over six weeks that really enhanced awareness of working with trauma.

Alongside formal training, I have cultivated personal practices in Taoist Sexual Alchemy, studying Kundalini and continued participation as emotional support in sex positive spaces and Tantra festivals.

I made a full transition from Physiotherapist to Tantric De-Armouirng Bodyworker in 2022 and since then have worked with over 600 clients. I’m now expanding my offerings to a variety of in person experiences and facilitating workshops and spaces.