Tantric, Sensual or Yoni Massage: What's the Difference?
People often use Tantric massage, sensual massage and Yoni massage to mean the same thing. In my practice in Manchester they are different styles of bodywork, which can be offered separately or combined. Here is what each one is, and how to tell which might suit you.
Tantric Massage
I use the word Tantric because it is the word people search for. My understanding is that Tantra is all-embracing: it sees the divine in every part of being human, including sexuality. In my sessions, Tantric massage is the umbrella for three styles: sensual massage, Yoni massage and somatic de-armouring.
Sensual Massage
Sensual massage is designed to awaken the senses. It is oil based, and I use many kinds of touch, from deep and grounding to light and feathery, with suspense, texture and contrast. People often feel their body come alive with energy, tingles and vibration.
You can be as clothed as you want, or undressed and draped. Sensual massage does not have to include Yoni massage, but it can. It is always your choice.
Yoni Massage
Yoni massage is a slow, intentional, consent-led massage of the vulva and, if it feels right, the inside of the Yoni. It has no goal. It brings awareness back into a part of the body many women have disconnected from, so that numbness, tension and pain can soften and pleasure can return.
It only comes after clear consent and a slow progression of massage through the whole body, and very often it is not part of a first session.
Somatic De-Armouring
De-armouring works with tension and emotion stored in the body. I apply steady, sustained pressure into the fascia while you breathe slowly and deeply, and held energy and emotion begin to move and release. It does not have to include sensual work, it can be fully clothed, and I offer it to people of all genders.
Which One Is Right For You?
A simple way to start thinking about it:
- If you want to simply receive, and feel pleasure and nourishment, sensual massage is a natural start.
- If something feels blocked, or the past is holding you back, de-armouring works directly on those blocks.
- If you want to reconnect with your Yoni, Yoni massage can be part of your journey when you are ready.
- If you are not sure, that is normal. A free connection call is a good place to talk it through.
Find Out How A Session Could Support You
The next step is a free 30 minute connection call, or you can book your session directly.
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